Friday, November 22, 2013

My mom and Aunt

So I asked my mom and aunt to tell me what some of their memories were from the 60-mile walk. This is what they had to say:

Aunt: I must say I enjoyed walking with 2500 women of all shapes and sizes, ages, walks of life wearing hundreds of shades of pink and costumes. It was fun to listen to them talking, singing, cheering around us. I was overwhelmed by the generosity and hospitality of the community as they lined the sidewalks saying thank you and handing out food, water, stickers and lots of other stuff and then the crew that took such great care of us and made everything so fun. Finally, the closing ceremony was incredibly moving and wrapped the whole weekend up. Having you and your mom there was so special.

Mom: I have to say my most memorable moment was seeing your beautiful tear stained face as you walked with a relatively small group of survivors in the closing ceremony. It reminded me deeply why we did the walk!!! Thank goodness your aunt was there to hold me up or I am sure I would have chosen that moment to faint!
 
Other moments, the elderly lady at the Senior center standing there all dressed in pink waving and cheering us all on, you giving her a hug. The girl walking next to me said they all wondered if she would be there, she has stood in that same spot for the past 4 years cheering the walkers.
 
The melon men, the jeep guy.........these guys took time out of their lives, jobs, etc. to be there daily to do nothing but make us laugh, give us a smile, take pictures and cheer us onward. Very much appreciated. The two ladies who started each day with us and followed us along the way being at different spots every day, but all day clapping and cheering us on. The sun rise on Sunday at camp. The cheer we received when we walked into the hotel bar after day 2. The police officers who entertained us at lunch with music and prepared dances, how fun.
 
The kindness of an entire city that took time out of their busy lives to be there for us. The 5 deep crowd of people at the end who clapped, cheered, hugged, whistled and cried with us as we crossed into Petco.
 
The girl walking in front of us for her friend who had died 2 days before the race and the lady who was walking for her grand daughter who was diagnosed at the age of 10, who is now 15.

 
 
 
 

60-mile pictures

 My mom decorated her carfor the drive down to San Diego! There were pink curly ribbons also hanging from the side mirrors!
 My son is into the teenage mutant ninja turtle. I couldn't resist taking my picture with one! This guy dressed up as different characters throughout the walk.
 That's me...in front of the lovely porta potties.
The melon men...they dressed up like this and cheered us on every day!
 The end of the first day...
The begining of the second day...
 The end of the second day. I was freezing!
The begining of the third day.
This is me in a shirt that little o's class made me last year for breast cancer awareness day at his school.
 The end of our 60 mile journey!


Tuesday, November 19, 2013

60 miles

As most of you know, over this past weekend, I participated in the Susan G. Komen 3-day 60 mile walk. I thought I would share some of the experience with you. This post will be more about where we went on the walk and what is was like. I will do another post later in the week about the emotional side of the walk (deep, I know!).

To start, I will tell you that I did not stay in a tent on a blowup mattress at the camp that is set up for the walkers. No way, not this girl! I stayed at Camp Hilton with my fellow walkers, my mom and aunt. My aunt did the walk last year. She slept in a tent the first night. She slept in a nice, cozy comfy, warm bed at a hotel the next night. Yup, that is what happened this year as well. We weren't the only ones either! There were several participating hotels that hosted many, many, many walkers.

Each day we walked around 20 miles and along the route, every couple of miles, there were rest stops which had porta-pottys (yuck), water, gatorade, snacks, and a medical tent. The routes were packed with lots and lots of people cheering us on. Some even brought their dogs, which, of course, I stopped and said hi to each and every one! The San Diego police were dressed in pink shirts, rode their bicycles, and kept us entertained with music and dances at lunch. There were decorated "titty-taxis", which gave rides to the injured or tired, but also cheered us on with crazy outfits and music. There were vendors along the way who sold buttons to decorate our lanyards/identification and other breast cancer related items. I purchased several buttons, including "1-Year Survivor," "One Tough Chick,"  "Yes, they're Fake...the Real Ones tried to Kill Me." and one for my husband "Boob Guy!" There were even people who were giving shots of alcoholic drinks! They weren't full-size shots, but more like half a shot. Totally unexpected, but fun! One lady told me that she had been to 5 other races in different cities and had never seen soo much alcohol on the route before. I knew I chose San Diego for a reason!

My mom and aunt are professional walkers (not really, but they both trained for this), so they were truckin' along the route, which was fine by me because I walk better by myself (very anti-social of me!). It gave me time to think about everything that has happened over the past year and a half and what the future holds (deep thoughts, for sure!). They had to pull over to the side of the road and wait for me...a lot! The amount of training I did was walking a mile a day, every day, and going to the gym a couple of times a week. This was 20 miles every day for three days. Yeah, I wasn't prepared.


The first day we were up at 5:30 am to catch the bus to the starting line. It was dark. It was cold. And I needed coffee.  I knew it was going to be a long hard road ahead of us, but, there was an amazing electric vibe among all the women on the bus that made it hard not to be excited.

We walked in to the Del Mar Fairgrounds, found coffee, and got our lanyards which provided ample space to fill up with buttons and stickers given to us and purchased throughout the walk. After a few tears during the opening ceremony, we were off!

We went through Del Mar where shop owners gave us mini-cupcakes ("suck it up cupcake" was a favorite saying during the walk, so cupcakes were appropriate!), stickers, water, and lots of cheering. We went down by the ocean and walked through a light rain which totally messed up my hair and I had worked very hard on my hair that morning (actually, I spent a total of one minute on it!). We ventured up a massive hill in Torrey Pines that just about did us all in! I actually turned around and walked backwards for a bit because my legs were screaming in pain! We stopped for lunch (Panera provided it all three days), and then the rest of the day is a blur! My feet were aching. My knees were hurting. And my ankles were weak. But, I wanted to finish the day and the 20 miles. Good thing there were people handing out shots - vodka with pink lemonade! We barely made it over the finish line the first day! We headed straight for the bus back to Camp Hilton!

Our second day was horrible. We were up at 5:45 am to get coffee at the hotel (the stuff at camp didn't have enough caffeine) and barely had the energy to climb the stairs to get on the bus. I can honestly say that I don't remember most of it because I was in soo much pain that I think I just blocked it all out! I know we walked by Sea World, and through some really beautiful neighborhoods, and down by the ocean, but that is about all I can remember. No joke.  I made my first stop at the medical tent during lunch. I had to have a couple of blisters fixed up in order to continue on the journey. A guy next to me in the medical tent had to hold my hand while he got his blisters popped and fixed because he was in soo much pain. Day two sucked. Big time. We had been told that day two was the hardest to push through, and it was. Nothing a nice glass of wine couldn't fix back at Camp Hilton!

Day three was very hard, but soo worth it! It was a beautiful day and even though we were up at 5:45 again, I had actually gotten some sleep the night before as compared to the previous nights (my mom talks in her sleep and my aunt snores a bit) and I was pumped! I made a stop at the medical tent to get my blisters bandaged so that I could attempt to walk the final day. I started out strong and then slowly fell behind. My mom and aunt had to wait for me a couple of times, I felt bad, but I just couldn't push myself to go any faster. There was one final hill that seemed to go straight up. I pulled my bg girl panties up, put my head down and pushed my way up the hill. Ok, a mimosa shot, an oj-vodka shot, and a vodka-pink lemonade shot might have helped a bit, but I did turn down the full-size Miller Light! I have standards, you know! After lunch, we marched on through some colorful neighborhoods with one final push to the finish line at Petco Park. There were people lined up along the side of the street cheering us on. I did a little dance as we walked over the finish line! We stood in line (forever) to take our picture in front of the 60 miles walked banner and then flopped down on the nice, soft grassy knoll to take a well deserved, although short, rest before the closing ceremony.

All I will say about the closing ceremony is that it was emotional...very, very emotional. I will save that for my next post later this week, so stay tuned!

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

My little man...

Four years ago, our world changed forever. It began on a Monday night and continued through until Friday night at 9:19pm when little o finally made his entrance. Our little family has been through a lot over the past four years and it has been a roller coaster of emotions. Even though he is growing up, he will always be my little man! He is sensitive, emotional, intense, observant, inquisitive, smart, loyal, and a snuggle bug and social butterfly.

This evening, I asked little o the following:

Nickname: Little O
Age: Four
Favorite color: Blue and green
Favorite animal: Jaguar
Favorite book: Happy Birthday Hamster
Favorite TV Show: Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles
Favorite movie: Cars
Favorite song: Good Morning (song sung at school each morning)
Favorite food: chicken nuggets
Favorite drink: milk
Favorite snack: fruit snacks
Favorite toy: monster truck
Best friend: Charlie
Favorite holiday: Halloween
Favorite restaurant: BJ's
What is your favorite thing to do outside? Play
What do you want to be when you grow up? Teenage mutant ninja turtle
Where do you want to go on vacation? Ocean
What do you like to do with mommy? play monster trucks
What do you like to do with daddy? play cars

Loves school, reading books, eating snacks, super heroes, Ziggy, snuggling, riding his balance bike, going to Target, playing in the dirt, jumping in the pool, watching teenage mutant ninja turtles, spiderman.


This is little o at 11 weeks!